How to choose the right Celebrant
It’s time to lock in a celebrant and make your love official!
Sometimes all the other planning happens and you suddenly remember - EEK, I need a celebrant to make it legal! (Note my silent horror at this sentence – as in reality the celebrant actually plays a huge role in what your day will look and FEEL like.) Plus we are the only vendor you actually NEED for you to get married!
So, how do you choose the one for you?
First up, the celebrant is the one who will set the scene for the whole day. The tone of the ceremony kick starts it all, so choosing one you CONNECT with is super important. If you do this, they will make you feel at ease as you know you can trust that they will portray your relationship in a way that truly reflects you.
Things to consider –
1. Start by stalking them!
Have a good look at their socials and their website. Do you like the language they use? Do they look like the sort of person you would love to hang out with and do they give you a good vibe. Is their messaging on point for what you are looking for in your ceremony? Sure, sometimes the socials can be a polished visual representation – but let the whole overall vibe of pictures and messaging lead you in your decision making.
2. What do other people say????
Read their reviews! This will give you a great idea of what the celebrant can deliver. Look for repeated words that keep coming up in the reviews as a true representation of who they are. Reviews from other vendors are also a massive help to guide you to the right person. Perhaps you have already locked in a photographer or a venue; asking them about the people you are considering as a celebrant can also guide you.
3. Show me the money!!
In a budget friendly world, you may be swayed be the different price points that all celebrants have. So, if you are reaching out to different ones and asking for quotes, don’t just jump into the trap of being focused on money to guide your decision. Remember how much of an impact your celebrant will have on the day. Also, remember that if you want a personalised ceremony, check that they don’t use templates and write from scratch as this may be why the price point is different. A great celebrant can create a moment that you and your guests will remember for a life time. You need to trust that they can carry your vision to life, that they will be there to calm your nerves and get you hyped up as well as looking at the finer details of the day. Sometimes small adjustments in the budget will turn your ceremony from boring bit at the start to epic party starter.
4. Make sure you meet with them before you make the final decision!
Many of us love to do a vibe check first, and we do this over either zoom or an in person, no obligation coffee, (or cocktail 😉) These meetings are essential for finding out if you click. If you can envision having a wine with them, then they are the right person for you! That connection is key as you will be sharing your vision with them and allowing them to bring your love story to life. Find a celebrant you wouldn’t mind going out for a drink with and just book them!
So, stalk them, meet them, and book them! Great celebrants will be snatched up early, so don’t leave it to the last minute!